Desiderata

Go placidly amid the noise and the haste,
and remember what peace there may be in silence.

As far as possible, without surrender,
be on good terms with all persons.
Speak your truth quietly and clearly;
and listen to others,
even to the dull and the ignorant;
they too have their story.
Avoid loud and aggressive persons;
they are vexatious to the spirit.

If you compare yourself with others,
you may become vain or bitter,
for always there will be greater and lesser persons than yourself.
Enjoy your achievements as well as your plans.
Keep interested in your own career, however humble;
it is a real possession in the changing fortunes of time.

Exercise caution in your business affairs,
for the world is full of trickery.
But let this not blind you to what virtue there is;
many persons strive for high ideals,
and everywhere life is full of heroism.
Be yourself. Especially do not feign affection.
Neither be cynical about love,
for in the face of all aridity and disenchantment,
it is as perennial as the grass.

Take kindly the counsel of the years,
gracefully surrendering the things of youth.
Nurture strength of spirit to shield you in sudden misfortune.
But do not distress yourself with dark imaginings.
Many fears are born of fatigue and loneliness.

Beyond a wholesome discipline,
be gentle with yourself.
You are a child of the universe
no less than the trees and the stars;
you have a right to be here.
And whether or not it is clear to you,
no doubt the universe is unfolding as it should.

Therefore be at peace with God,
whatever you conceive Him to be.
And whatever your labors and aspirations,
in the noisy confusion of life,
keep peace in your soul.

With all its sham, drudgery, and broken dreams,
it is still a beautiful world.
Be cheerful. Strive to be happy.


by Max Ehrmann

“It’s the most wonderful time of the year”

"Legendary quotes blown away into the blue;

We say what we want but it’s the opposite of what we do.

We could all be happy if we really wanted to.

But — “if I’m not being happy… then, well, why should you?”

Selfishness kills you,

Selflessness builds you.

So do what you want but make sure you’re still true.

We forget about how Jesus died for what we used to do;

We still sin every day but He still loves you.

Caught up in the act of doing what we do;

We party, smoke, blaze and we get drunk too.

Getting home late, past our curfew.

What happened to family, love, and virtues?

We live every day without thinking it through;

Our ultimate goals in which we want to pursue.

So take these words and put it into your view;

"I'M OKAY!" I can see past your lies — it’s like they’re see-through.

Just sit back with your family and have some fondue,

This time of year is when God comes to the rescue."

-Kim Nguyen


Where Do You Draw The Line?

"Come on, I know we're just human and all that jazz, but yes, if humans have the ability to falter and submit to temptation, then humans were given the gift to fight back and do something about it." -Jeffrey Gache

The excuse "we're human, we're not perfect" can only go so far. Using that excuse to get over your guilt like *snap* is settling into complacency. Not to mention denial.

Can you imagine if you kept hurting your mom and dad and you just said "oh, well I'm not perfect!" and did nothing else to change? Would you keep running away, forever held down by your guilt, denial, depression and bitterness?

Sometimes we have to face God and humble all that we are and admit our wrongs.

"What can I say? What can I do? But offer this heart O God, completely to You." -The Stand, by Hillsong

What can you say? What can you do? A sin is a sin. No reason or explanation can get you out of something you've committed. All you can do is just pray and repent...

...and never forget that nothing that you do to God can make Him love you less.

God will always love you, but it's up to you whether you want to be with Him or not.

It's your choice where you want to finish. And in accordance with popular belief, fate really is in your hands. That is one of the greatest gifts God has given Man: freewill.

So where do you draw the line?

Holiness

"Holiness is not the luxury of a few. It is everyone's duty: yours and mine." -Mother Theresa

"You are called to holiness. That may mean that you are a nun or a lawyer. You may be a mother or a single professional. But God’s will for your life is the same: holiness, no matter who you are. That is why we are created. We are created to be holy in love, in love with God, in love with other people, and in love with the community of believers. That’s what we are all destined for - holiness in love." -Allen Hunt (Confessions of a Mega Church Pastor)

Gift

"For the wages of sin is death, but the gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord." -Romans 6:23

Wages = We earned it.
Gift = We didn't.

"Life is the first gift, love is the second, and understanding the third." -Marge Piercy

Conceal

"Laughter can conceal a heavy heart, but when the laughter ends, the grief remains." -Proverbs 14:13

Hurt

"Hurt people hurt people." -RevRunWisdom

"When you're hurt, you want to hurt harder who's hurting you. But I'll tell you: it will only hurt you even more. And believe me, I don't want to hurt you, because what hurts you, hurts me more." -Anonymous

"Yes, God hurts when we do not love Him back, but it’s not because He needs us; it is because He knows how badly we need Him." -via Adriana Maravilla

12 Sins We Blame On Others

Ben Reaoch (KnowGodKnowLove)

It started in the Garden. Adam said to God,

The woman whom you gave to be with me, she gave me fruit of the tree, and I ate.

See. (Genesis 3:12)

The first man, caught in the first sin, turns to blame his wife. And he extends the blame to God as well! He implies that he would have remained innocent if God hadn’t put Eve in the garden with him.

The blame-shifting in the Garden continues today. Our proud hearts send us desperately looking for someone else to point to every time we’re confronted with our own sin. There must be someone else—our spouse, sibling, parent, boss, co-worker, pastor, friend, or God, himself.

We are so desperate to justify ourselves that we become irrational. Here are 12 examples.

1 Anger

I wouldn’t lose my temper if my co-workers were easier to get along with, or if my kids behaved better, or if my spouse were more considerate.

2 Impatience

I would be a very patient person if it weren’t for traffic jams and long lines in the grocery store. If I didn’t have so many things to do, and if the people around me weren’t so slow, I would never become impatient!

3 Lust

I would have a pure mind if there weren’t so many sensual images in our culture.

4 Anxiety

I wouldn’t worry about the future if my life were just a little more secure—if I had more money, and no health problems.

5 Spiritual Apathy

My spiritual life would be so much more vibrant and I would struggle with sin less if my small group were more encouraging, or if Sunday school were more engaging, or if the music in the worship service were more lively, or if the sermons were better.

6 Insubordination

If my parents/bosses/elders were godly leaders, then I would joyfully follow them.

7 A Critical Spirit

It’s not my fault that the people around me are ignorant and inexperienced.

8 Bitterness

If you knew what that person did to me, you would understand my bitterness. How could I forgive something like that?

9 Gluttony

My wife/husband/roommate/friend is a wonderful cook! The things they make are impossible to resist.

10 Gossip

It’s the people around me who start the conversations. There’s no way to avoid hearing what others happen to say. And when others ask me questions, I can’t avoid sharing what I know.

11 Self-Pity

I’ll never be happy, because my marriage/family/job/ministry is so difficult.

12 Selfishness

I would be more generous if we had more money.

Making excuses like this is arrogant and foolish. It’s a proud way of trying to justify our actions and pacify our guilty consciences. And it keeps us from humbling ourselves before God to repent of our sins and seek his forgiveness.

Consider James 1:13-15, which leaves us with no way of escaping our own sin and guilt. We cannot blame God, for he “cannot be tempted with evil, and he himself tempts no one.”

Instead, we have to accept the humbling truth that “each person is tempted when he is lured and enticed by his own desire.” This will end the blame game, and it will send us pleading for Christ’s mercy and grace.

Application: From the twelve examples, which is your prominent area of “blaming” and what can you do to minimize that in your life?

5 Ways to Love/10 Ways to Love

Joshua De Gracia (KnowGodKnowLove)

Get out there..love and be loved because God is LOVE.

1. Listen and think before you speak. Your tongue has the power of life and death.

James 1:19-20

“My dear brothers, take note of this: Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry, for man’s anger does not bring about the righteous life that God desires.”

2. When in doubt, love. When in even more doubt, give more.

Proverbs 21:26

“All day long he craves for more, but the righteous give without sparing.”

3. Pray without ceasing.

Colossians 1:9

“For this reason, since the day we heard about you, we have not stopped praying for you and asking God to fill you with the knowledge of his will through all spiritual wisdom and understanding.”

4. Love through good times and bad.

Proverbs 17:17

“A friend loves at all times, and a brother is born for adversity.”

5. Love no matter what because love covers all.

1 Peter 4:8

“Above all, love each other deeply, because love covers over a multitude of sins.”

10 Ways to Love

1. Listen without interrupting. (Proverbs 18)

2. Speak without accusing. (James 1:19)

3. Give without sparing. (Proverbs 21:26)

4. Pray without ceasing. (Colossians 1:9)

5. Answer without arguing. (Proverbs 17:1)

6. Share without pretending. (Ephesians 4:15)

7. Enjoy without complaint. (Philippians 2:14)

8. Trust without wavering. (Corinthians 13:7)

9. Forgive without punishing. (Colossians 3:13)

10. Promise without forgetting. (Proverbs 13.12)

Availability

"God doesn’t ask your ability or your inability. He asks only your availability." -christiangirlnz